Becoming Maggie

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Argentina

In case you didn’t already know, i’m a research nut. If there is anything i like about something, i go and get at least 10 books on it from the library. I’m pretty sure the librarians know me by now..and am fully aware of my many interests phases. Every time i go to the library i go the little computer and ask myself “What am i inspired to learn about today?”

This past month or two we’ve been studying South america for geography(Home schooled-in case you didn’t know.) My mom asked me to choose a country. If you know me, you’d know i have a hard time making decisions and choosing only one.  And i’m very interested in geography and traveling the world,so that didn’t help.  I chose Guatemala..and Argentina.

I’ve already done a post on Guatemala(Did you like??),So i thought it was about time i did one on Argentina!

 

Some Interesting things about Argentina:

  • They pay for things in Peso. That is their currency.
  • Their official language is Spanish. Though they sometimes speak other languages in their homes. There is a saying that is supposedly half truthful, “The typical Argentine is an Italian who speaks Spanish and thinks he’s British.” They say this because a lot of Argentine’s have European ancestors. And some have migrated there.
  • Buenos Aires is their Capitol.
  • Argentina isn’t of course as well know as or large as India or China’s Tea industry. But they are the best single exporter of black tea to the US.
  • Argentine’s are a nation of very enthusiastic readers and scholars. Children are often told “Libro cerrado ro saca letrado” or in English “You don’t learn anything from a closed book!” They respect anyone who can read and discuss classic books, and have deep conversations with.
  • The national dance is Tango. Tango in Argentina means singing and dancing. They sometimes play accordion while  people dance and sing. One famous Tango singer is Carlos Gardel. He was born around 1881. He also recorded songs for a radio station and also in motion pictures.
  • Argentina’s wild west history is one of the sources for the many legends and stories. Some Gauchos(like cowboys)  wear colorful ponchos. Ponchos were to be worn like a coat and served many other purposes such as; rain and wind protection, warmed them while they slept, protected them from knife cuts if in a fight. The color of each poncho has great meaning. They tel where about the owner lives. For example; blood red and multi colored ponchos come from the north. While the black and white ones come from the Pampa. Women too would wear ponchos.
  • Some sayings about ponchos: “You’ve stepped on your poncho” -Meaning you’ve made a mistake.. “I wonder what he/she has under his/her poncho” Meaning the same as “i wonder what he/she has up his/her sleeve  Being suspicious of someone.
  • Sports they often play and are most known for are futbol(soccer) & Polo.
  • They have both public and private schools. Preschool and Kindergarten aren’t required,but is available. 7 years of primary school is required. And students in high school usually finish by 14 or 15 years old.
  • The marrying age is 21, though they have coming out parties at 15 for girls,called QUINCÑERA’S. In m Mexico(and here sometimes) they have these also. (My Mom actually wanted me to have one this year because i’m Mexican, but i wasn’t too fond of the idea.)  In Argentina the party usually starts by going to a morning mass(catholic.) Then having family and friends over for an all night hard core dinner and dancing party. For the party the girl would typically wear a long dress,like a bride would. After the guests arrive and the party starts and they all have dinner in a banquet room. There would be toasts and the gifts would be opened, and a huge birthday cake is out. The girls single friends hold the ribbons on the cake and pull. On one there is a surprise,usually a ring. Suggesting who would get married next. This activity is like catching the bouquet of the bride at a wedding. After the cake is out they begin the dancing. Usually the Waltz with the father comes first. Then other assorted dances requested by friends and family.
  • Coming out parties are much simpler for guys,and are held when they turn 18. Including a meal of Asado(LOTS of meat), Music, dancing, and then an outside game of soccer(futbol.)

 

Enjoy this Prayercast video about Argentina,from (prayercast.com) :

 

 

A quick turn around

What was a nice and carefree morning, later turned into a traumatic one..

I deleted my to do list..on accident.
There was no way to get it back. And no where i had written it down.

I quickly broke down crying. After all I’m a bit of a control freak, and cling to my to do list like a floating device- as if I’m drowning–in boredom.

Its pretty ridiculous actually..but thats what happened.

Then i had a nice conversation with God. He kindly reminded me about furthering his kingdom.
And this had crossed my mind, as my mom told me “weren’t you just telling me to be a human being not a human doing?” Well yes. But i thought i had more important things to do. But not really.. We aren’t promised tomorrow. And if i spend all of my days working on to do lists that have no eternal value..well I’m kind of a failure.

Right when we were almost done with our conversation, my close friend Maddy texted me.

She was saying how shes been reading my poetry on my blog, and asking if i wanted to see some of hers(about God).

It was just kind of like a jaw dropping moment. Like THAT could be it. I don’t think its a coincidence at all. Maddy seriously one of the strongest Christians i know, texts me about that while I’m talking to God, about what i can do.. Wow.
What if God keeps leading me to ‘further the kingdom’ with poetry? And what if this involves Maddy too? That’d be even better!

So yeah. Im in a inspired kind of mood right now! Im not even sad anymore,about my to do list. Sure I’m sure i still have things to do. But i don’t know what they are. So i feel pretty free. Like i don’t have to do anything!! Except the one thing.. Furthering the kingdom. Because that should always be #1.

So her is a poem i wrote on it :P haha see what i did there;)

Lost my to do list
Cried
my
eyes
out
So i told
My fellow list maker
Mom..
Just got an “i told you so”
Cried some more
Suddenly
A message came
From the God of all things
“Maggie, you need to focus
On other things right now.
What are you doing to further
MY kingdom?
You know that this life is only temporary.”
Alright God
Point taken..
Im willing,
Just lead the way,Lord.
Just lead the way.
Help me to discern the will of you,
From the will of mine.

Photo shoot with my supermodel Mom

I always call my mom a super model.

1. Because she is.
2.And.. Because we watched Madagascar 3 together. And King Julian i think, was saying that the bear was a super model. And we both thought that was really funny so thats why i always call her that..”Baby, you’re a supermodel!! ” i sometimes even imitate his voice. Lol
I guess thats were i get my super model-ness!! Haha! Shes also where i get some of my very ‘interesting’ facial expressions from.

Enjoy the pictures!!!

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Poetry and things..

The past two nights ive been writing a lot in journals and stuff. Specifically poetry. Some of them are a bit too personal to put on here, but here are a few.. Sorry they are a bit depressing lol. Dont judge- eh its my blog no? :)

“Has it ever occurred to you”

Has it ever occurred to you
I like
New beginnings?

Has it ever occurred to you
I actually
Want a hug?

Has it ever occurred to you
I actually have feelings too?
And i dont like
Being told
What to do
With them?

Has it ever occurred to you
I hate hiding
Things
And keeping
Secrets?

Has it ever occurred to you
I have a voice
I just dont know
Who i can trust enough
To hear
My insane thoughts?

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“Love”

True,
Love..
Waits.
Is not obbsessive,
But content.
Does not change with time,
Or without contact.
Does not need to talk to eachother, everyday to feel loved.
Doesnt leave,
When someone better,
comes along.
But holds on,
To the love it once felt,
And never lets go.
Being there, even when you dont want them to be.
Being committed.
Not giving up because the other person wants to be friends.
But respecting that.
Love is that thing you feel,
When:
You love someone for their
Weirdness
Thoughts
Attitude
Strengths and weaknesses
And simply because,
you love everything,
about them.
Seeing them as a
whole human being..
Not as an object,
Or even someone who can,
Make you ‘happy’.
You should love someone,
Not by what they can do for you,
But because they are a beautiful,
Person.
And i dont mean in a physical attraction way,
But beautiful as in,
Made in the image of God.
Child of God.
Child of a king.
Independent.
Original.
One of a kind.
Pure and whole.
THAT is the
True love,
We should strive to be.
And look for.

(Note: this isnt only the romantic type of love, but for friends and family also..)
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“Fasting come faster”

Im actually
Really
Excited
To fast from screens
All Next week.
Its a nice excuse
To not be a texting addict.
To only:
Read
Pray
Talk with God, about some pretty big stuff.
To clear my head
And heart..
Of bad stuff,
Distractions.
And even people,
Bad influences etc.
It will be so
Peaceful and quiet!!!
Im going to try going
Without
Makeup too!
If i wear any..
It will be to the bare minimum.
Im excited!!
Peace out.
Im sure y’all will miss me;)

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Victim

Im tired
Tired of being
The victim.
The
‘Quiet’ one.
And the
‘Awkward’ girl

Why cant i be
Pretty
Like everyone else?
Or at least original?
Or not: awkward
And the unsocial outcast.
Its a rough life.
People treating you like its a bad thing to be those things.
Which..
Im not tired of those traits itself.
But the attitude of people
Treating them like its bad.
And like your a victim
If you are those things.
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The rest of this will be inspirational quotes and pictures..the usual:) by the way the picture of the blue an white square tiles, is because i had a funny conversation with the kids i was babysitting. It was totally random. I asked them when they had a chess board out.. “Which colors are touching each other, the blue or the white ones?” They looked so cute trying to figure it out!
They decided on the blue.

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Church

When I’m older i want to have a church that is:

Small
People with same faith and values
Challenge your thoughts
Have the people of the church be the worship everyone using their individual God given gifts
Amazing and spirit led worship..Campfire type music preferably:)
Prefferably meeting outside
Just having conversations amongest themselves and challenging and reaffirming their thoughts
Theres no designated pastor
The kids aren’t separated. But with their families.
No dull messages.

The bible says that its not the building that is the body of christ but the people.

Vegan Deviled Eggs(potatoes)

Devilled ‘eggs’

1/2 cup hummus (i used roasted red pepper)
1/4 cup vegan mayonnaise(i used earth balance’s mindful mayo)
Put a generous amount of turmeric until it turns into a yellow orangish mixture.. Wait a few minites though, as it may need to settle in.. Too much turmeric may not taste the best

Cayenne pepper
Dill
Garlic powder
Salt
Pepper
Paprika

Mix these all together in a bowl (except Paprika)
Spray a cookie sheet with olive oil.
And put small potatoes (cut in half) in oven on 350 for 45 minutes or until soft. Face the potatoes flat side down.
Then scoop out a bit of the pottoes and add to spice/mayo/hummus mixture and mix then fill potatoes.
And top with Paprika. Cool in refrigerator or at room temperature. And enjoy!!

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Bleh bleh bleh

Just some random stuff. Ya know? Lol its just a very bleh day.. I Barely have wifi..and that makes me super crabby so yeah:(

Hope you guys are having a good week/and a happy start to the weekend.

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Assumed Perfection

I was talking to a friend last Wednesday just asking how **she was etc.. And she shared with me about her challenge with people viewing her as ‘lil miss perfect’. How everyone looks up to her. How she tends to be the one for people to come to for advice and to lean on. But when she needs advice and a shoulder to cry on, no one is there or she feels like she can’t go to anyone.. because she’s supposed to be perfect. And how hard it is to be that perfect person, that she knows she isn’t.

 

And we were talking about how relevant that is to both of us. For me, not so much being viewed as perfect. But having the impression that I’m supposed to keep my ‘impure’ feelings inside.

 

And how were so tired, of needing to hold our feelings in. Because they’re not ‘Christian’ or ‘of God’ Not that it’s Gods fault or anything, because it isn’t at all. It’s ours. We let our friends and whomever we hang out around’s thoughts into our heads and let them stay there. We even enjoy our perfectness. Sometimes even letting it get to our heads.

Everyone thinks “Oh. She is so perfect. She prays before every single meal. She takes her bible everywhere. She doesn’t date. She doesn’t even have crushes! When she’s about 20 she can court men, but no holding hands. Nope. Not gonna happen. That could lead to who knows what!! Shes so pure!

She doesn’t wear bikinis, she only is allowed to wear ‘oh so modest clothing’ She is so nice to all of her siblings! She’s homeschooled! Of course she doesn’t know what twerk-ing is. Or anything ‘dirty’ like that! Shes so smart! She skipped a grade! *gasp*

She only reads classics, and no novels. She hasn’t even seen the chickflick ‘The Notebook’!!!Because that’s a romance movie, and her parents wouldn’t want her to watch something that might stir up, ‘impure’ feelings.”

Most of those are to the extreme. And don’t even apply to us, personally. Yes it’d be great if we were that ‘pure’. But I don’t think God wants us to make an idol out of purity. Or perfect-ness.

So instead of doing that. We just need to feel the feeling and let them go. Not holding them in, but letting them out. And keeping them out. Or if you speak in Chick flick, I can put it to you this way;

 

Steven: I still love you

Liz: So love me

Steven: I miss you

Liz: So miss me, send me love and light every time you think of me. Then drop it. It won’t last forever, nothing does.

 

-From eat pray love-

 

When putting it that way it may seem a bit dramatic, but life is dramatic right? Anyways.. So in our own ways, we just need to feel it and be positive about it. Acknowledge that it’s human to feel that. But know that, it’s not a good feeling to leave sitting around. So just say good bye and toss it out the window. It’s that simple.

And also part of being a Christian is about being imperfect. If you can’t embrace your imperfectness, you may need to read up on why Jesus died for us. And how it’s okay, to not be good at everything. To strive for the best..Without making it an idol.

And also do you friends a favor and don’t call them perfect (all the time)it could seriously pressure them and stress them out. Not exactly a cool thing to do. But of course you can always encourage them! Most importantly: Be there for your friends. Not just when you need them.

**Also.. This can of course be applied to guys lives as well. I’m sure its not just girls who deal with this.

 

More randomness

“Perhaps travel cannot prevent bigotry, but by demonstrating that all people cry, laugh, eat, worry, and die, it can introduce the idea that if we try and understand each other, we may even become friends.” – Maya Angelou

 

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An Introvert’s Bill Of Rights

From: http://www.experienceproject.com/stories/Am-An-Introvert/1515789

 

To all the introverts out there: It is time that we stand up to the obnoxious extroverts who keep pushing themselves on us.

To all the extroverts out there: Not everyone wants to “rock and roll all night and party everyday”. We as introverts need time to ourselves, time to reflect, time to think before we speak, time to prepare for social situations, time to ourselves ALONE. We communicate differently, don’t expect us to give you an immediate answer to a question that we have not even had time to contemplate. We as introverts demand a change to a society and social norms that keep us down and not recognizing our potential or our accomplishments. Among these changes are rights that we believe that are sensible and would take us down the path towards equal treatment.

These rights include: (based on a list you can see here: http://shrinkingvioletpromotions.blogspot.com/p/introverts-bill-of-rights.html)

1. Introverts have the right to claim a sacred space of their own for recharging, rebalancing or simply enjoying a single, solitary activity.

2. Introverts have the right to leave social events “early” as needed. Or not attend at all.

3. Introverts have the right to explore and choose the marketing and promotional activities that feel best suited to their unique style and preferences.

4. Introverts have the right to abstain from any marketing (or life) activities that result in boils, a resting heart rate > 120, and/or loss of any bodily function.

5. Introverts have the right to marry other introverts and bear children

6. Introverts have the right to retire to their hotel rooms for quiet and recharging time during conferences!

7. Introverts have the right to not say anything for upwards of three hours and still be considered “cool.”

8. Introverts have the right not to have to explain why they need down time or alone time.

9. Introverts have the right to use email instead of the telephone.

10. Introverts have the right to wear iPods/MP3 players in ostensibly social contexts, thereby demonstrating not their introversion but their thoughtfulness.

11. Introverts have the right to not engage in conversation unless they so choose.

12. Introverts have the right to believe wallflower is not a dirty word.

13. Introverts have the right to recharge with video and/or computer games without being regarded as childish.

14. Introverts have the right to screen phone calls or cut short exhausting phone conversations as needed.

15. Introverts have the right to take walks in the middle of the day to clear their heads and recharge.

16. Introverts have the right to listen for long periods of time.

17. Introverts have the right to submit email interviews in lieu of over the phone or in-person.

18. Introverts have the right to choose the size of the crowd they participate in.

19. Introverts have the right to limit phone conversations to 15 minutes.

20. Introverts have the right to ride conveyances of all types unmolested, and may use any ploy at their disposal to discourage small talk.

21. Introverts have the right to attend a social function and say absolutely nothing.

22. Introverts have the right not to speak up in meetings until they’re damn well good and ready, without being thought of as dull-witted.

23. Introverts are allowed to (and actually like to) eat dinner at restaurants or go to movies alone.

24. Introverts don’t have to be quiet all the time.

25. An introvert has the right to create a paradoxical public image, one that claims to reveal as little about themselves as humanly possible while doing the exact opposite.

26. An introvert has the right to spend time with other introverts in complete silence and not be mocked for it.

27. Introverts have the right to say no to potential house guests, without being thought of as being rude.

28. Introverts have the right not to throw parties, and still be thought of as normal human beings.

29. Introverts have the right to shut off the phone, close the curtains, lock the doors and hide at will…no explanations required.

30. Introverts have the right to their own workspace without constant intrusion.

31. Above all introverts have the right to say NO.

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